Month: March 2013

Self Harm. Please Re-post and Share

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spirituality / family

Good morning friends. I’m writing today with much concern. I am aware of some serious issues and sadly, I feel my hands are tied. Speaking from my own experience on suffering with an eating disorder and self harm, I understand the severity and the feelings of bondage these coping behaviors have on one’s self. These addictions are progressive and get worse over time. The cries for help people use often go unheard. Especially by parents. As I […]

Out for the day.

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spirituality / Relationship

I’m going to be out for most part of the day today. This brings me some anxiety. Why? Well friends, I’m a home body. I like, I feel comfortable, I feel safe when I stay home. I do enjoy going out, I do like the fact that when I’m out and want to come home I do just that. When I wanted, NEEDED, to get home I was on a mission to get myself there. And […]

Phobias and the Brain

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Originally posted on <a href="">Wives of Sex Addicts Therapy blog</a>:<br />“The road to brain wellness begins with awareness. It also ends in awareness, and awareness allows every step along the way.  In the brain, energy flows where awareness goes. “When the energy stops flowing, you become stuck.  Stuckness is an illusion, but when it is happening to you, it feels very real.  Consider someone who is deathly afraid of spiders. Phobias are fixed (i.e., stuck) reactions.…

Long road here continued…

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parenting / Relationship

I don’t even know how many parts I have posted about my journey to where I am today. I will share that, I get a lot of demands about posting this part of my life. Why?? No clue. I ask the inquiring minds why and what is it about these posts they enjoy and here’s what a few readers say… “It’s interesting. It’s your life” , “Incredible transformation”, “It shows me no matter what happens, […]

I Choose, I Decide.

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You know the saying when it rains it pours? For me, I like to see it as a lot of goodness coming my way. Things may be tough and challenging, and at times, I feel like I want to die, but I don’t. I survive :) Over the past two days, there’s been a turn of events in our home. There has been some ugliness rearing it’s ugly head again. I can see my part […]

Tis the Season.

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I’m finding myself going through a very familiar season of life. I don’t like it. Maybe I’m focusing too much on my external world that is causing me to stumble, I’m not really sure. What I am sure of is, I do not want to walk through this season again. It’s old. It’s frustrating and frankly, I’m very sick and tired of it. It’s like a merry go round cycle every 8-10 weeks. When I’m […]

Stumped :(

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parenting / Relationship / family

Ahhh the teenage years. Friends, I will be honest. I don’t hit too many major road blocks with my kids. So far the teenage and transition into adulthood have been pretty manageable. Don’t get me wrong here, some issues indeed have surfaced and come up but for the most part we have sailed through by the grace of God. This morning there has been an issue in which I feel, I’m “loosing control”.  Now parents, […]